There are some things that the reader must know before starting to read or even following my blog for the first time..
1) This blog is not for people who are searching for serious stuff..
2) The words in the blog are carefully chosen to be lucid to avoid misinterpretations..
3) If you are searching for proofs for certain facts that are written in this blog, this blog is not for you...
4) The facts stated and the suggestions made are absolutely not on the basis of personal experiences but are a result of tremendously deep research and experiences derived from examples...
5)The right to freedom in Article 19 guarantees the Freedom of speech and expression, hence the terms discussed can never be illegal..
Bring it on...
It is quite a scene when people are getting off the track in their lives. This does not literally mean that a man so wise as Albert Einstein cannot even get rid of the things that he does not like at all..The most amazing facts can sometimes baffle you when you fall in the wrong situation at a wrong time..Take human psychology for instance..You are as messed up as the monkeys roaming around in the forests but you still think 'you are not confused at all.' The reason why i am trying to explain my point of view to people so elaborately is that direct addressing or personal attacks are not a good practice when it comes to blogs.. Lets stop swirling around and land directly on ground zero...So what exactly am i talking about? It is quite amazing where the standard of human relationships has gone over the decade..No matter what you feel and whatever you think you have the facility of expressing yourself without any delay..In case of guys you do not waste time in getting to her and expressing your like or dislike...and you do not even think about the reply..( well depending on the way you express it you may be disliked in an unusually usual way sometimes)..That being true in case of gals too...It often happens that you go undecided and you lose control over yourself while talking and that leads you in a soup..Well for obvious reasons to avoid such a situation you must follow certain strict rules:
1) Stop comparing yourself to your friends: This law holds good especially in the case of their relationship status over the social networks...When a girl does not care to change her relationship status, that is where she is most vulnerable and does not want people to know that she is into a relationship...The reason being that she is confused about her current status or even the current guy she is into..When a guy changes his relationship status to ' in a relationship', he is not actually in to a relationship but wants the people around him to know that he is in one...and in this way will increase the curiosity of his friends...
2) Beware of pretenders : This is to reinforce all the people around the world who are not involved and do not want to get into long term commitments..The people around you will try to get you into a relationship...The y will try and set you up or even remind you that you must get into one or even remind you of your crushes..
Beware...you must avoid confusions to take control of your life...!!! Be absolutely sure in what you are doing...If you are not sure about a person, the best way is to let her/him go...You might feel after some time that you are doing it wrong but trust me you are not...Instead of ending up into a mess do what your brain tells you at the very first instance...Do not listen to your heart later if it tells you something else...
3) SIR model : The theory of the SIR model states that there are three kinds of people in this world: The susceptible, infected and recovered...The susceptible ones are the safest of all..You do not have to be afraid of people who are susceptible to getting into a relationship...Infact you can be one of them..The infected are the ones you cannot do anything about but must feel sorry for...And the recovered are the ones who realize that they have made a mistake...How do you classify people on the basis of their behaviour? well when you see a guy texting or talking over cellphone for more than 8 mins you must know that he is infected...That may not be true in the case of girls coz they talk over phone for a long time and even text a lot...When a girl asks you what you are doing(for no particular reason and not a good time) by texting or over the phone, you must realize that she is about to enter from susceptible to infected stage...(The infection being you in most cases)..When a guy feels the happiest and most relieved, bingo!!! you have spotted a recovered...When a girl is happy she is infected though..when a girl turns pessimist she is classified as recovered....
